Even in couple relationships it is not always sunshine and roses, this is normal and in no way a cause for concern. We are all human beings with whims, worries, insecurities and needs. It is not always easy to clarify these for yourself and to bring them into harmony and balance with those of your partner. Sometimes it seems to happen by itself: we feel happy, seen, loved and held. But sometimes we also feel neglected, misunderstood, unloved and left alone. If these feelings are only temporary, most of us manage to deal with them. But what happens when these dry spells continue? Discomfort sets in and the awareness of wanting to change something. Anka Haucke knows this moment, it is the one that couples report about in their practice for couples counseling and that lies long before the decision to seek professional help. The moment someone wants to look at their relationship and find out what's going wrong is the moment for this book. It contains the most common couple problems and how to deal with them. Ankha Haucke provides help for self-help, encourages listening to oneself, questioning dynamics and changing them. This gives us the chance to help ourselves in crises and to take a new path for our couple relationship so that we can be happy again in the future.